There’s a saying about life lessons, “Though nobody can go back and make a new beginning… Anyone can start over and make a new ending.”
We may have many ups and downs in our life but that doesn’t mean it’s the end. We can always start a new beginning forgetting the past and bad experiences we went through. We need to learn from our mistakes. To start a new beginning, we need to be mindful of few things so that we become a better person in life. Below are the six important life lessons that will help you start a new beginning and will be a better person. Hope all these life lessons will become useful in life.
1. When you’re Alone Minding Your Thoughts
What will happen if…..?? How will it go??? With will be the final result?? Will I be able to contribute to the fullest???? these are common thoughts that come to our minds in situations like before an important examination, an interview, your big day your wedding and many such important events in our life and most of the time these thoughts end up being negative due to which u totally loose your confidence and makes u feel you’ll never be able to succeed in our life In your life and these negative thoughts take over your thinking power and thus you end up being negative in every situation.
Therefore it is said to be positive being positive not only helps to gain confidence but also helps you be in a pleasant environment which is good for your overall well-being. People who have a positive attitude towards their work and life situations always succeed in their life. Therefore it is said when your alone mind your thoughts don’t let your thoughts control your actions.
“We are addicted to our thoughts. We cannot change anything if we cannot change our thinking.”
– Santosh Kalwar
2.When you’re with Friends Mind your Tongue
There are times when we speak unknowingly and without thinking about what will be the effect on the other person. There might be things that may hurt the feelings of the opposite person. We need to think before we talk use of slang languages making fun of your friend he/ she might not show he that things u said has hurt them but deep down in his heart he feels the pinch this might affect the years of bond u have created with your friend this will make your friend feel low and he may try to create a wall and stay away from you.
When we gossip among our friends with the people from our school colleges workplaces and even at times among our relatives this creates a negative impression which not only affects our reputation but also slowly affects us from within. Gossips create an unpleasant environment around us from which people may want to stay away from this makes takes us away from our friends and the results in a lot of negativity.
There’s a saying: “The tongue has no bones but is strong enough to break a heart. So be careful with your words.”
3. When you’re Angry, Mind your Temper
This basically means that when we are angry we behave or react in a specific way which we would regret later and at times in anger we create such situations that we may not be able to rectify and this will affect our entire life. When we are angry we are not in our proper state of mind to decide or to take the next necessary step Therefore it is of utmost importance to control our anger. In situations when we can’t or aren’t able to control our anger, we need to talk to someone who we are comfortable with and can share are feelings and thoughts. This helps us to be free from all the anger built within us and helps us to think before we react. Our friends can help us to find a solution, therefore, it is advisable to share your feelings before you react in anger and rather than to regret in the future.
“Forget what hurt you in the past, but never forget what it taught you. However, if it taught you to hold onto grudges, seek revenge, not forgive or show compassion, to categorize people as good or bad, to distrust and be guarded with your feelings then you didn’t learn a thing. God doesn’t bring you lessons to close your heart. He brings you lessons to open it, by developing compassion, learning to listen, seeking to understand instead of speculating, practicing empathy and developing conflict resolution through communication. If he brought you, perfect people, how would you ever learn to spiritually evolve?”
– Shannon L. Alder
4. When you’re in a Group, Mind your Behavior
Your behavior is the one that shows other our true self. It is said action speaks louder than words and our behavior and actions reflect ourselves. When we are in our friend’s circle we need to control the way we act as our single unpleasant behavior can change our entire world upside down. We all live in a society that judges us for the friends we choose and the way we behave among our friends it creates a bad impression in the society. We need to think and understand what is good for us and we need to behave in a certain way.
There are thousands of people that we come across and those who notice us we need to behave in a pleasant way. Always greet people with a smile there should always be positivity in our behavior, therefore, it is said to be careful for how u behavior.
“Good character keeps good brand safely. Bad character destroys hard earned brands.”
– Israelmore Ayivor
5. When you’re in Trouble Mind your Emotions
Emotions!!! It’s something that we all go through in our good Times and bad. When we are in trouble I.e when we are facing some situation in life which is difficult for us we need to control our emotions. Emotions can take us down completely they can tear us apart causing our souls being weak and not having the strength to face the difficult situations in life. There are times when our emotions can make us take up steps which are harmful to us as well as for our near and dear ones. Steps like suicidal attempt, taking revenge, etc the fact that we have such thoughts itself is harmful to us. We always need to control our emotions talk to your parents, your friend someone u can trust there is nothing bad in sharing your emotions, in fact, it helps us grow internal And gives us the strength to face all the situations of life. This must be an important lessons of life.
“I feel too much. That’s what’s going on.’ ‘Do you think one can feel too much? Or just feel in the wrong ways?’ ‘My insides don’t match up with my outsides.’ ‘Do anyone’s insides and outsides match up?’ ‘I don’t know. I’m only me.’ ‘Maybe that’s what a person’s personality is: the difference between the inside and outside.’ ‘But it’s worse for me.’ ‘I wonder if everyone thinks it’s worse for him.’ ‘Probably. But it really is worse for me.”
– Jonathan Safran
6. When God starts blessing YOU control your Ego – Important life lessons
“WHEN YOUR PRIDE IS BIGGER THAN YOUR HEART AND YOUR EGO THAN YOUR HEAD, GROW UP OR YOU WILL BE ALONE FOR LIFE” This very thing can take away all our relationships, all the peace that is in our life. Ego is your idea or opinion of yourself. There can be both positive and negative effects to this. Ego can help us increase our self-confidence but at the same time, overconfidence in self can make one person prone to erroneous decisions. We should try and maintain a balance in our life a person without ego can become too careless but we need to keep a check on the level of ego we have. Having too much ego keeps us away from our friends and even end up in arguments. Therefore we must control our ego when we are blessed with too many things and not boost about it.
“If a man thinks he is not conceited, he is very conceited indeed.”
– C.S. Lewis