A relationship is very typical thing to handle. Ups and downs can be seen in each and every relationship. It is very delicate. You have to handle it with utmost care. But yes, it’s totally dependent on you that what kind of person you want in your life. And the kind of person in your life is the factor that affects relationship the most.
One question you need to ask from yourself while you are dating someone is the “ I am dating the right one?” especially when you are a guy. It is because a girl is a creator and also a destroyer. So, are you dating a girl who’s a real keeper or are you looking for one who keeps you happy ? Use these signs to know that the girl you’re dating is one worth keeping!
#1 She gives you space
Most of the girls want to be really involved in their guy’s lives. These type of girls want to be around even when it’s supposed to be his alone time. In this you start missing your own life. So, the woman you should be with should be the one who respects your guy time. She should let you enjoy it with least interference.
The one who lets you hang out with your guy friends over a couple of times, the one who knows that your time alone with your video games, your music, your other hobbies is important to you,the one who knows how to back off whenever you’re too tired or too stressed to go out with her is an ideal one. She doesn’t insist on being around you 24/7 and that’s what you require. If your girl is like this, she’s definitely worth keeping.
#2 She makes you realise your responsibility
Now, here it doesn’t means that she is completely behind you to get a job or to work harder to get a promotion. It means that she should be the one who motivates you to maximize on your potential. She should act as a helping hand for you to find ways to become better. And it can be anything, say, it’s by encouraging you to apply for a promotion or to have a healthier lifestyle. She should take care of you and remind you to take care of yourself. She shouldn’t be irritating but yes should remind you to watch your expenses or to stay focused at your job.
#3 You are free to talk to her about anything
Your perfect one won’t be just a good listener, but she will also speak of her mind about whatever you’re talking about. At times it may happen that your interests do not align 100% yet she will still be up for a conversation about what it. It may happen that she become curious about some of the things that you don’t have in common.
It feels like a real conversation, a true one, when you are talking to her. It is that you both should be able to speak of your minds without fear of judgment. You should never be pressured to try to impress her and should not be ashamed of telling her your accomplishments. When soever you’re having a conversation, she listens carefully to what you have to say before she tells you what’s on her mind.
#4 She’s secure and need none to tell her
She is perfect if she doesn’t need you to always assure her that she’s beautiful or sexy. It’s nothing she’s doubtful about. She knows this perfectly. Her perfection lies in her confidence. She doesn’t rely on you for your approval. She is the one who knows how to take a compliment. Nahh! She doesn’t feel jealous just because you’re talking to another girl. She knows within herself that she has enough to offer. She knows she has the capability to keep a guy.
Now, here it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t feel insecure at times she may feel down and feel a bit insecure. But this is not her whole personality. At times when she’s disappointed or she feels like she wasn’t able to get what she wanted desperately, she knows how to get back up. She knows how to work harder to get what she wants.
#5 She cares for you and will always do that
Girls are generally more nurturing. They are not embarrassed to show that they want to take care of you. Your perfect one will make sure that you’re getting enough nutrients and fluids especially when you’re sick. Your love will stick around when you want to stay in instead of going out. It may happen that she surprises you with your favorite food or it can be a copy of your favorite movie.
And it’s not just your physical health that she takes care of. Your girl knows how to make sure that you’re taking care of your mind. She is the one who helps you to relax when you’re stressed. Whenever you want to get some heavy stuff off your chest she’s there to listen to you and makes you feel better. She’s definitely not your doctor and you cannot expect her to shrink all in one, but still she does what she can, to her maximum ability to make sure that you’re in good health.
#6 Her smile is in your smile
Remember that she’s not always the proper princess. She is the one who can make you giggle. She is able to say or do things that tickle your funny bone. It might happen that she quote funny movies. Her jokes may be corny, they may also be pj’s but you can see that she does her best to cheer you up when you’re not in a good mood.
A girl who can make you laugh, even when you feel that the entire world is a burden, can do miracles in your life.
#7 She can take care of herself and don’t require a bodyguard
She’s not always playing in distress. Your girl knows how to get herself out of a sticky situation. And this all she does without using her womanly charms for help. Her in dependency speaks a lot about her. She is independent in her own way.
But on the other hand, she knows when she needs your help. She’ll be thankful and appreciative when you give her help. In short, if she asks you to do some work around the house or to do some heavy lifting, she trusts that she can ask for your help.
#8 She gets close with your loved ones
She loves being with you whenever you’re with people who are close to you and love to spend time with them. She’s able to handle both your friends and family and is pretty much comfortable in having conversations with them. She’s never feels being left alone to talk to your parents or your relatives.
Suppose you’re out with friends, your girl is comfortable and able to keep up with what’s going on. Sitting at a side like a dumb girl isn’t her call. Instead, she makes sure to create a bond with the people you hold near to your heart.
#9 She can still captivate you anytime
Even if you’ve already seen her all sides either good side or her bad side, the moody side or the just-got-out-of-bed side, still there’s still something special about her that keeps you interested. You can say like whenever it’s her turn for making you laugh or her ability to challenge your mind she can still leave you in awwww after all this time.
Her ability to still impress you is something that stays far longer than her beauty. As it’s said beauty doesn’t last, she may be beautiful now, but after a couple of decades, it’s her personality that will matter, that will still hold your heart.
#10 She respects your family as her own
She never neglects your family. She never puts a question on your love for her and your family. She loves your family as her own. She never asks you to leave your family for any good reason. At bad times, it’s not only you who takes a stand, but she also acts as a pillar to support your family.
I hope that this will help you guys out. And for the girls, now that you know what it takes to be the perfect one in a man’s life, try to inculcate these signs. And guys now you can ask yourself, is the girl in your life a real keeper? And if she is, hold on to her and never ever let her go!