Million dollar question is that how to be successful in life. what is the life lessons to get success? We often hear that one should always listen to their heart. Do what we love to and what gives us satisfaction. We need to follow our passion and should make it our career so that we enjoy what we do. But people do not follow it. The question here is most of the people do what they get easily in living and accept it as their fate or karma and get along with the same easy going lifestyle? It actually happens because one finds it difficult to listen to their heart and finds it challenging. So today I am going to share with you about such challenges.
The motive behind sharing such challenges is that if anyone goes through the same challenges they will not be afraid to accept those challenges alone without anyone’s help and will also help them to fulfill their dreams. In our generation, everyone has faced the challenges some of them have passed through it but some just let it go. Now it’s your choice whether you want to accept the challenge or just let it go. So here i am writing 7 awesome life lessons tips which will really help you to stand your life out of the crowd.
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1. Don’t think about how many friends has move ahead of you
Image credit- fsymbols {dot} coEveryone has their group of friends who have fun together, have their exam tension and then we grow up and get along with the race of life. Some of them aim to become doctor so some engineer and they also succeed in what they aim for. If this is what your heart says then you should do it. And if you’re not sure of what you want to do in your life it’s good to become an engineer, doctor or a government job so that you have a secured future which is very important.
Challenge is when you’re sure of your goals and walk on your path of life and at the start you feel everything is going well but then there comes a point where your friends have move forward and you being their same age is still backward and struggling to reach your goal and you might feel like have you done anything wrong by choosing what you want to do in your life but this is the time where you need to think in a positive way and should follow your goals.
Believe in your goals, distractions will always come your way and you need to learn to pass them off. If you are confident about your passion and you will easily pass any distractions that come your way. There is no age bar to fulfill your goals believe in yourself and one day you will reach your goal ahead of your friends. -
2. You will face criticism from the society. (Be Ready)
Image credit- cuteness {dot} comThe second life lessons is facing criticism from the society is a positive way. See, If your passion is different from others then you will expect opposition and criticism from the society. The 1st one to oppose will be your family because they care about you especially middle class families where they think and believe that job is their safety and if you think of opening a business then family will not support you. Their human nature is that they are scared of something unknown and are afraid to accept something new. But when you start your business then they will start supporting you. So one should accept it as a part of process without getting scared. Try and always have the confidence from your family rest all good will happen. -
3. You have to be long wait for success
Image credit- youtube {dot} comMany times it has happened that we are very close to success and we fail and loose hope but that’s not it we need to see that we achieve full success. Remember that if we try and be patient we will achieve success. It’s just a matter of time.Bill Gates suffered failure in business. Today he is known to be one of the richest men in the world. Although Gates failed at his first business, it didn’t discourage him from trying again. He didn’t want to give up because the sheer notion of business fascinated him. He was smartly able to put together a company that transformed the personal computing marketplace. And we all know just how successful that was for him.
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4. The work of your heart may not be financially rewarding
Image credit- pixbay {dot} com Tagged as Free for commercial useMany a times you may be passionate in the work which will give you full satisfaction in what you do but it may not help you financially. Like many people who are social activist or work for a NGO they are passionate about their work and they get satisfaction with what they do but they are not financially strong. Before you take up such a job you need to have a clear mindset that you’re getting satisfaction in your job you love to do and need to go along with it. Also, when you get involved in your work fully someday you will be financially rewarded just not get your inner greed come your way. -
5.Hey don’t feel boredom (Be Happy and Be Active)
Image credit- pixboy {dot} comSometimes it happens that things what you love the most to do later you get bored of it, in this situation you shouldn’t lose interest in your passion and should try to create new and innovative ways to move ahead. This will help you in pursuing your dreams. Someday or the other everyone goes through this phase and you need to be relax and move ahead. -
6. Don’t lose focus
Image credit- pixboy {dot} comThe biggest challenge in life is that we do not complete our dreams. The initial step life lessons is easy, you put efforts to start something but the difficult part is to complete and gain profit from it. It usually happens that we put all our efforts doing what our heart says, but after some days we find many alternatives. We start feeling that we should stop doing this and do the other alternatives which may give us more profit.
What happens is you lose interest in the current work you’re doing and attract to other alternatives that come along and then by doing this you can’t give your 100% in what you’re doing which won’t keep you far away from success. That’s why it’s important that what work we took in hand we need to give full attention to it and not to lose focus.
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7. To know that what you’re doing is not your passion
Image credit- VideoHive {dot} net Tagged as Free for commercial useThis is very common that what we are doing is not our passion and we ourselves fail to accept it. Our day to day life is changing, we won’t understand what we like until we practically do it. We can’t come in people’s talks and get influence and make things our passion and get along with it. Later as days pass we start getting bored to an extent when we don’t feel like continuing it any more. This phase is somewhat like boredom but it’s even worse than it which will lead us in giving excuses for not doing the work.
So now the question is that in such situation what needs to be done? It’s simple it’s time for us to start seeking for our passion and once we feel that yes this is my passion so we should once try it once practically, but still if you heart is not satisfied with what you’re doing then keep your search on till you reach your goal and someday you will for sure know what your heart is seeking for.
So friends this were the 6+1 challenges that we face in our day to day life. There may be many more we face but that doesn’t mean we should lose hope in it instead we should fight for it and reach our goal.
A very beautiful quote said by Napoleon hill “When defeat comes, accept it as a signal that your plans are not sound, rebuild those plans, and set sail once more toward your coveted goal.”